I have some quirks. I have had some times in my life when I dealt with some things. But, I can honestly say I haven't had 20- 30 different issues. So, when I'm leading a group of teens with all different personalities and each with their own set of things to deal with, it's really great when God puts people in my path that have gone through some of them or had personal experience of some kind with the issue. So, today when I had a conversation with someone about a youth and was able to get insight from someone about how they handled a situation, it was great!
My personality makes me the type of person who wants to help everyone. Luckily, through the years I've realized that I can't. But, being able to put two people together that would help the two of them is something I'm working hard at. And, so far, God has been showing me the way pretty strongly. I'm realizing by connecting people, everyone involved is much better off than if I tried to do everything myself.
Thanks God for being part of my conversations and helping me realize I don't have to do everything myself.
12 Just as a body, though one, has many parts, but all its many parts form one body, so it is with Christ. I Corinthians 12:12
Blessings,
Jennifer
Monday, October 31, 2011
Sunday, October 30, 2011
Chats and Paper Airplanes
While this weekend was awesome for me, two of my youth had a pretty tough weekend. They both had a grandparent pass away- one Saturday and one Sunday.
I was just on facebook with both of them. What I love about facebook is that I can communicate with youth when I wouldn't otherwise be able to. Calling someone at 10:30 at night just isn't something I do.
So, this was the first chance I had to talk to the girl whose grandpa passed away this afternoon. I told her I was praying for the family and if there was anything I could do to let me know. I told her I knew it was probably rough for her right now. And, for an 8th grade girl, I was awed by her response. Here it is in the the status she posted right after that. "
I was just on facebook with both of them. What I love about facebook is that I can communicate with youth when I wouldn't otherwise be able to. Calling someone at 10:30 at night just isn't something I do.
So, this was the first chance I had to talk to the girl whose grandpa passed away this afternoon. I told her I was praying for the family and if there was anything I could do to let me know. I told her I knew it was probably rough for her right now. And, for an 8th grade girl, I was awed by her response. Here it is in the the status she posted right after that. "
"i gtg goodnight and btw ive been praying for you and your airplane that is cool lol". As part of confirmation class last week we all put 3 things that stress us out on a paper and folded them into airplanes and flew them. Whoever got the airplane committed to praying for the person who wrote the 3 things. And, even though everything was going on with her family, she remembered to pray for me! She was praying for me through all of her rough times! What an inspiration she is! God is with her!
Matthew 18:3
New International Version (NIV)
3 And he said: “Truly I tell you, unless you change and become like little children, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven.
Blessings,
Jennifer
Blessings,
Jennifer
Saturday, October 29, 2011
Going Home- Part 3
Appropriately, tonight I sat at the campfire with the church camping group and had a long conversation with "Doc." He was my pastor growing up. And, some of the best memories of my youth are weeks at camp with him. So, tonight, I thought it would be a great chance to find out some of the "secrets from camp" since I'm now a youth leader- kind of a rite of passage thing. Unfortunately, I didn't get to find out the big mystery about the magic circle. But, another mystery was solved.
We talked about camp and the difference between camp then and now. We roughed it while now camp usually means cabins and air conditioning. But, he shared how he did things- planning, dealing with things as they happened, listening and knowing the group, and turning things into teachable moments. And, the more we talked, the more I realized that how I run my events is how Doc ran camp! I never knew then how things were set. But, it's so obvious that how I deal with situations and events that it's what I learned and absorbed from those weeks at camp! My philosophy is to plan things but then to do whatever God leads us to do depending on the group. And, that's pretty much how he ran things, too.
The other cool thing was when we were talking about camp and he realized I wish I could give my youth the same experience I had, I mentioned that I take them on mission trips. And, he asked me about them and shared with me how the things I do on the mission trip are like our camp was. And, he gave me suggestions for ways to further that next year. I'm so excited for my next mission trip that I'd be ready to leave on Monday!
Then, I got to thank him for all of the things he taught me and all of the guidance he gave me. And, it was great to be able to tell him how he had been a big part of my spiritual journey. He figured through at least 18 years of leading camp he had about 40 kids come through- I think that was a low estimate. I told him that I had about 30 youth this year so not only did he influence the 40 he took to camp, but the ones I lead, too. It's an amazing web of people that we touch that we may never even know.
So, where is God? He's tangled in that web surrounding all of us.
Blessings,
Jennifer
We talked about camp and the difference between camp then and now. We roughed it while now camp usually means cabins and air conditioning. But, he shared how he did things- planning, dealing with things as they happened, listening and knowing the group, and turning things into teachable moments. And, the more we talked, the more I realized that how I run my events is how Doc ran camp! I never knew then how things were set. But, it's so obvious that how I deal with situations and events that it's what I learned and absorbed from those weeks at camp! My philosophy is to plan things but then to do whatever God leads us to do depending on the group. And, that's pretty much how he ran things, too.
The other cool thing was when we were talking about camp and he realized I wish I could give my youth the same experience I had, I mentioned that I take them on mission trips. And, he asked me about them and shared with me how the things I do on the mission trip are like our camp was. And, he gave me suggestions for ways to further that next year. I'm so excited for my next mission trip that I'd be ready to leave on Monday!
Then, I got to thank him for all of the things he taught me and all of the guidance he gave me. And, it was great to be able to tell him how he had been a big part of my spiritual journey. He figured through at least 18 years of leading camp he had about 40 kids come through- I think that was a low estimate. I told him that I had about 30 youth this year so not only did he influence the 40 he took to camp, but the ones I lead, too. It's an amazing web of people that we touch that we may never even know.
So, where is God? He's tangled in that web surrounding all of us.
Blessings,
Jennifer
Going Home- Part 2
I had lunch with my former youth leader today. She supported and inspired me through the years. And, one of the reasons I became a youth leader is because of her. I wanted to help youth like she had helped me when I was a teen. So, today was a chance to visit and share memories, thoughts, and ideas. And we definitely did since we had a three hour lunch!
It was such a great time to spend looking back and ahead at the same time. I was able to talk to her about things I'm doing now and find out how she had dealt with situations then. And, then we talked about life. It was great being a "grown up" and just chatting. And, then, I wanted her to know how much she meant to me because I think it's important. If you had someone help you along your spiritual journey, I encourage you to take the time to let them know that they had a role in your life. I'm sure it's not why anyone does it, but you may be encouraging them to continue or at the very least, acknowledging that what they did made a difference.
So, where was God? He was in the moment this person was put in my path and He's been there the whole time.
Blessings,
Jennifer
It was such a great time to spend looking back and ahead at the same time. I was able to talk to her about things I'm doing now and find out how she had dealt with situations then. And, then we talked about life. It was great being a "grown up" and just chatting. And, then, I wanted her to know how much she meant to me because I think it's important. If you had someone help you along your spiritual journey, I encourage you to take the time to let them know that they had a role in your life. I'm sure it's not why anyone does it, but you may be encouraging them to continue or at the very least, acknowledging that what they did made a difference.
So, where was God? He was in the moment this person was put in my path and He's been there the whole time.
Blessings,
Jennifer
Going Home- Part 1
Today was awesome! Right now I am overwhelmed by the blessings of today! So much so that I am separating it into three posts. This weekend I've taken some time off for myself. I don't do that often so it's kind of a big deal to me. ;) But, it wasn't just time off. It was time off with my family and some of the people who helped me along my spiritual journey. So, I'll start with this morning.
I got to my parents this morning and sat down to relax and chat before we left for the campground for the day. So, shortly into our conversation, this blog came up. And, then, my dad said something amazing to me! Something has been on my mind the last week or so and I've been feeling a nudge to do something. And, my dad says "I think you should..." ! (someday soon if I do it maybe you'll find out;) ) So, my day started with words of encouragement from my dad. I am so blessed to have parents who have always supported me and encouraged me. They taught me so much about how to live as a Christian. And, although they told me, it was more that they showed me by their actions. My favorite scripture is one that I love because it's how I saw my mom live and how I try to live.
I got to my parents this morning and sat down to relax and chat before we left for the campground for the day. So, shortly into our conversation, this blog came up. And, then, my dad said something amazing to me! Something has been on my mind the last week or so and I've been feeling a nudge to do something. And, my dad says "I think you should..." ! (someday soon if I do it maybe you'll find out;) ) So, my day started with words of encouragement from my dad. I am so blessed to have parents who have always supported me and encouraged me. They taught me so much about how to live as a Christian. And, although they told me, it was more that they showed me by their actions. My favorite scripture is one that I love because it's how I saw my mom live and how I try to live.
Jeremiah 29:11 New International Version (NIV)
11 For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the LORD, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.
So, where was God? I think He was speaking through my dad's encouraging words to nudge me further to pursue a dream of mine. Another step along my journey...
Blessings,
Jennifer
So, where was God? I think He was speaking through my dad's encouraging words to nudge me further to pursue a dream of mine. Another step along my journey...
Blessings,
Jennifer
Friday, October 28, 2011
Blessing in Disguise
Today God reminded me sometimes I just have to stop. I was stressed and running around like crazy trying to get done with what I had to do in time for tonight. I was supposed to meet the youth at a concert tonight instead of doing our regular 4th Friday movie night. We've been having 10- 20 show up lately for it. But, tonight, the only one that showed up to this event was the girl I picked up and brought with me. And, she wasn't in the mood to be there, I could just tell. She and her dad had just had one of the typical parent/ teenager "discussions". I had just had one with my own son. It was a food drive and he was supposed to pick up the canned goods at our house but had decided to hang out with a friend instead, making going to the concert on time impossible. So, the girl and I sat in the parking lot for about 15 minutes after the concert started and when nobody from our group showed up- including my son with my canned goods to get into the concert- I decided we just weren't meant to be there.
So, instead we all, the girl, my son, and me, went to my in-law's for dinner. His sister and her family were in town for the weekend and so everyone was going to be there but me. So, it was a blessing in disguise that I got to spend some much needed relaxing time enjoying the company of my family. So, I could be sad for such a low turnout for a youth event. But, I'm thinking it worked out just the way it was supposed to. The girl was much happier being around friends and relaxing, my son and I got to enjoy time with family that we thought we were going to have to miss, and my family is glad they got to see me! ;)
Blessings,
Jennifer
So, instead we all, the girl, my son, and me, went to my in-law's for dinner. His sister and her family were in town for the weekend and so everyone was going to be there but me. So, it was a blessing in disguise that I got to spend some much needed relaxing time enjoying the company of my family. So, I could be sad for such a low turnout for a youth event. But, I'm thinking it worked out just the way it was supposed to. The girl was much happier being around friends and relaxing, my son and I got to enjoy time with family that we thought we were going to have to miss, and my family is glad they got to see me! ;)
Blessings,
Jennifer
Thursday, October 27, 2011
Hard Lessons
Today was my office day- typically secluded with a few meetings thrown in here and there- usually pretty uneventful. But, my second meeting of the day was with someone I've gotten to know throughout the years. And, sadly, his wife has cancer. And, today he shared with me that she has three brain tumors and more cancer somewhere else in addition to what she was being treated for. The tumors are causing her to no longer be able to walk. It's heartbreaking! I had been worried about him because I usually see him every week and it had been three weeks. But, when I saw him he said they just got back from Vegas. He and his wife, their children and their significant others, and two cousins had all planned a trip awhile back before she got sick. And, although they had to wheel her around and she got tired easily, what a blessing to have that time together!
I came across a song the other day that reminds me of an old friend. Although it was at a time when I didn't always make the greatest choices, he was a good friend to me. And, this friend taught me a hard lesson that I try to live by. I didn't know then that I would share several lessons I learned from back then with my youth now. But, I feel that what I went through in my younger days can possibly help someone avoid or get through it today. So, this friend taught me that life is short. He was killed when I was 18. And, from then on, I have tried to live every moment with others as if it might be our last together. Leaving someone with harsh words left in the air is not something I tend to do because of him.
And, so then again today I was reminded of how life is short as my friend's wife is dying too young. And, although there is a better place than here, it's not an easy thing to deal with.
So, where was God today? I know He is walking alongside my friend, his wife, and their family. I just hope they know it. And, where was He when I was 18? Walking alongside me and bringing my friend home to Him.
Isaiah 41:9-10
Don't panic. I'm with you.
There's no need to fear for I'm your God.
I'll give you strength. I'll help you.
I'll hold you steady, keep a firm grip on you.
Blessings,
Jennifer
I came across a song the other day that reminds me of an old friend. Although it was at a time when I didn't always make the greatest choices, he was a good friend to me. And, this friend taught me a hard lesson that I try to live by. I didn't know then that I would share several lessons I learned from back then with my youth now. But, I feel that what I went through in my younger days can possibly help someone avoid or get through it today. So, this friend taught me that life is short. He was killed when I was 18. And, from then on, I have tried to live every moment with others as if it might be our last together. Leaving someone with harsh words left in the air is not something I tend to do because of him.
And, so then again today I was reminded of how life is short as my friend's wife is dying too young. And, although there is a better place than here, it's not an easy thing to deal with.
So, where was God today? I know He is walking alongside my friend, his wife, and their family. I just hope they know it. And, where was He when I was 18? Walking alongside me and bringing my friend home to Him.
Isaiah 41:9-10
Don't panic. I'm with you.
There's no need to fear for I'm your God.
I'll give you strength. I'll help you.
I'll hold you steady, keep a firm grip on you.
Blessings,
Jennifer
Wednesday, October 26, 2011
God in Chocolate
Tonight I saw God through someone else's eyes- through the tears of joy in her eyes actually. Sometimes I wish I could be in two places at once. But since I can't, I'm grateful to have people who share their joys with me. And, it's such a blessing to work with people who are so excited to share the love of God that it brings tears to their eyes!
So, tonight was trunk or treat for the kids at church. And, the person in charge was so excited to be sharing the love of God with the kids! She carved 16 pumpkins to spell out "Jesus is the Light"! And, even though it was cold and rainy, there were kids everywhere! The awesome thing was there were so many new kids, kids who hadn't been there in forever, and the consistent "regulars". And, they all came to the church and heard the pastor share a message with them before they ran around to get candy. And, it just goes to show that God can be anywhere, in anything- even in chocolate candy!
Speaking of God being anywhere... I am blessed to be able to work at a church doing what I love- hopefully leading youth to God. But not everyone has the chance to work for a church. Does that mean they can't lead people to God? Absolutely not! Everyone has a chance to share- no matter where they work or what else they do. It's a matter of being open to experience those moments that is key. It took me a long time to figure that out.
Jennifer
So, tonight was trunk or treat for the kids at church. And, the person in charge was so excited to be sharing the love of God with the kids! She carved 16 pumpkins to spell out "Jesus is the Light"! And, even though it was cold and rainy, there were kids everywhere! The awesome thing was there were so many new kids, kids who hadn't been there in forever, and the consistent "regulars". And, they all came to the church and heard the pastor share a message with them before they ran around to get candy. And, it just goes to show that God can be anywhere, in anything- even in chocolate candy!
Speaking of God being anywhere... I am blessed to be able to work at a church doing what I love- hopefully leading youth to God. But not everyone has the chance to work for a church. Does that mean they can't lead people to God? Absolutely not! Everyone has a chance to share- no matter where they work or what else they do. It's a matter of being open to experience those moments that is key. It took me a long time to figure that out.
1 John 1:7
Common English Bible (CEB)
7 But if we live in the light in the same way as he is in the light, we have fellowship with each other, and the blood of Jesus, his Son, cleanses us from every sin
Blessings,Jennifer
Tuesday, October 25, 2011
Newsletter
Today I was busy- frantically typing to get my church newsletter done. I have to print it by tomorrow. But, due to some late submissions, I'm still working on it. And, sadly, today I had a hard time figuring out where God was. That's why this is so good for me. It makes me stop- and without it I probably wouldn't stop. But, looking back through the day, I realize where I saw God. It was when I did stop- not by choice but by involuntary reaction. I was reading an article by the pastor for our newsletter. And, rather than proofreading it, I got caught in the words- in the hope and encouragement- and the challenge! 101 goals completed in 1001 days! Whatever you want to call it- a bucket list, a to do list. You know the things we all put off, what if we actually did them? And what if those things enriched our lives spiritually, emotionally, and physically? Then, what have we got to lose. Those words spoke to me. And, I wondered if I even had 101 things I wanted to do. But, I'm going to start my list and see what I can accomplish.
The other part of the article reminded me of my Thanksgiving goal last year. I put something I was thankful for as my facebook status everyday. And, it made me realize how blessed I truly am! I think it's time to start that right now. Who's with me? Let's give thanks for all we have this Thanksgiving season.
Ephesians 5:20
always give thanks to God the Father for everything in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ;
Blessings,
Jennifer
The other part of the article reminded me of my Thanksgiving goal last year. I put something I was thankful for as my facebook status everyday. And, it made me realize how blessed I truly am! I think it's time to start that right now. Who's with me? Let's give thanks for all we have this Thanksgiving season.
Ephesians 5:20
always give thanks to God the Father for everything in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ;
Blessings,
Jennifer
Monday, October 24, 2011
Don't Lose Focus
Someone came in to my office today to drop something off. We started chatting and he was very excited. Things have been tough for him lately. But, even with his struggles, he's doing his best to remain positive. And, it seems something has clicked for him. He's been serving and giving of himself more lately than I've ever noticed before. He's been more open and sharing and in turn, it seems, he's been receiving more. Today, he shared that since this change, things have suddenly been going his way. So, we discussed that when good things happen in our lives because of things we're doing, why do we stop? I think we just settle with things and think "ok- I've got it under control." I think we forget how we got there. And, we lose focus on God because we start focusing on ourselves. We need constant reminders to stay focused. And, that's where God puts people in our path. And, when bad things happen, it's not because God did something mean to us. Maybe it's because we lost focus and starting "going it alone."
So, where was God today? He was in my discussion with this person to help remind me to stay focused and to remind me why it's so important to continue helping others stay focused.
Trust in the LORD with all your heart; don’t rely on your own intelligence.
Proverbs 3:4-6
Blessings,
Jennifer
So, where was God today? He was in my discussion with this person to help remind me to stay focused and to remind me why it's so important to continue helping others stay focused.
Trust in the LORD with all your heart; don’t rely on your own intelligence.
Proverbs 3:4-6
Blessings,
Jennifer
Sunday, October 23, 2011
Crazy Day
Today was a crazy day! Searching for shoe boxes, strange odors leading to sirens and flashing lights, meetings and new people. And then came time for youth group- in a different place with no technology (which was half of my discussion for the evening). So, at 4ish I got to the church. And, after realizing counting on any tech stuff was futile, I gave up and did what I needed to do. I prayed. I asked God to talk tonight because I wasn't able to. My mind wasn't all there after going in so many directions. So, when people started arriving, I was counting on Him to pull me through. And, I feel like He did... again! We had our discussion and it went really well. We had some issues youth were having and God had put the right people in the path to be there tonight to handle them. And, I feel like they got it.
And, then we discussed our mission statement for the next year. I asked why they come to youth group, what they tell their friend's about youth group, and then what they wanted their statement to be. We ended up with 11 statements. I was dreading the next part in my head. We were about to vote. Then, another statement popped into someone's head- a combo of several statements. And, then we voted. Except for one kid being silly, it was unanimous! Thank God for no hard feelings and a great mission statement! What was cool is that as we were creating mission statements, I heard one say- and several agreed- we have to put spiritual growth in there! What a blessing these youth are! So... here it is!
6 “Happy are people who are hungry and thirsty for righteousness, because they will be fed until they are full.
Blessings,
Jennifer
And, then we discussed our mission statement for the next year. I asked why they come to youth group, what they tell their friend's about youth group, and then what they wanted their statement to be. We ended up with 11 statements. I was dreading the next part in my head. We were about to vote. Then, another statement popped into someone's head- a combo of several statements. And, then we voted. Except for one kid being silly, it was unanimous! Thank God for no hard feelings and a great mission statement! What was cool is that as we were creating mission statements, I heard one say- and several agreed- we have to put spiritual growth in there! What a blessing these youth are! So... here it is!
Matthew 5:6
Common English Bible (CEB)
6 “Happy are people who are hungry and thirsty for righteousness, because they will be fed until they are full.
Blessings,
Jennifer
Shoeboxes
This morning I was frantically calling dollar stores. I had requested plastic shoe boxes from another store. But, they couldn't find them. And, I needed some before 8:30 this morning. So, I was glad when someone answered the phone and said they thought they had some. "I need 50", I said. They doubted they had many. But, a minute later she came back to the phone and said, "Would you believe I have exactly 50!" Awesome!
So, I got back to the church in time to hand out shoe boxes to anyone who wanted to fill one for Operation Christmas Child. People fill a box with toys, school supplies, toiletries, etc. for children around the world who would not ordinarily get Christmas gifts- mainly because they usually don't know who Jesus is- let alone celebrating His birthday! So, this is a way to share the love of God with others. And then the kids are invited to go to a meeting where they learn about God.
Anyway, last year our goal was 50. We did 100. So, I thought optimistically if I got 50 today I'd have enough to get started. By the 3rd service, I only had 3 left! So, there's a waiting list for shoe boxes! How awesome is that?!
So, I got back to the church in time to hand out shoe boxes to anyone who wanted to fill one for Operation Christmas Child. People fill a box with toys, school supplies, toiletries, etc. for children around the world who would not ordinarily get Christmas gifts- mainly because they usually don't know who Jesus is- let alone celebrating His birthday! So, this is a way to share the love of God with others. And then the kids are invited to go to a meeting where they learn about God.
Anyway, last year our goal was 50. We did 100. So, I thought optimistically if I got 50 today I'd have enough to get started. By the 3rd service, I only had 3 left! So, there's a waiting list for shoe boxes! How awesome is that?!
Galatians 6:2
Common English Bible (CEB)
2 Carry each other’s burdens and so you will fulfill the law of Christ.
Blessings,
Jennifer
Blessings,
Jennifer
Friday, October 21, 2011
Random Acts of Kindness
I'm simply me. I grew up in a house where faith in God was just a part of life. There have been people in my life who have taught me by their ways. I've had my share of ups and downs. But, today I try to live by faith and focus on ways I can live the way God guides me. I feel strongly that I was inspired by others and I try to "pay it forward". So, today, when somebody shared about several acts of kindness they had done lately, it made me happy to hear. And then he said three awesome words. "You inspired me." How cool is that?! And, ironically, that inspires me! Knowing that what I do matters makes me think even more about what I'm doing. I'm nobody special. I didn't do anything special. I don't write this to sound vain in any way and I hope nobody takes it that way. Rather, I write to say this. The little things mean alot. So many people have influenced my faith and belief in God when I was growing up. It wasn't what they told me. It's what they did. I saw God in the way my parents always loved me- even when I wasn't very lovable. I saw God in my grandma when she welcomed me into her home to live with my 2 year old boy. I saw God in my sister when I realized she was the best friend I've been blessed to know my whole life. I saw God in my youth leader when I knew I could tell her anything and trust her. I saw God in Lou when I was literally down to my last dollar and he happened to randomly hand me a $20. There are so many people I can't count them all! (So, if I didn't mention you, don't be mad!) So, I feel very blessed to think that I am now able to pass that along. And, I encourage you to share with others- not by words but by your actions. God is everywhere in everyone who shows kindness and love to others.
James 2:14-17
14 What good is it, my brothers and sisters, if someone claims to have faith but has no deeds? Can such faith save them? 15 Suppose a brother or a sister is without clothes and daily food. 16 If one of you says to them, “Go in peace; keep warm and well fed,” but does nothing about their physical needs, what good is it? 17 In the same way, faith by itself, if it is not accompanied by action, is dead.
James 2:14-17
14 What good is it, my brothers and sisters, if someone claims to have faith but has no deeds? Can such faith save them? 15 Suppose a brother or a sister is without clothes and daily food. 16 If one of you says to them, “Go in peace; keep warm and well fed,” but does nothing about their physical needs, what good is it? 17 In the same way, faith by itself, if it is not accompanied by action, is dead.
Thursday, October 20, 2011
Testing For Facebook
People have asked me to post this to facebook. So, I've created a facebook list so people who might be interested in this would get it posted but those that wouldn't won't have it show up. If you're getting it on your wall but don't want it, let me know and I'll take you off the list.
Blessings,
Jennifer
Blessings,
Jennifer
It's All Good!
Thursday is tough- especially on a dreary day like this! I sit in an office all day so I typically don't talk to many people unless it's during a work meeting. My class this evening was different than usual. We watched part of a movie so there wasn't really much discussion time- lots of popcorn eating time, though!
So, there was no earth shattering God moment today. Don't get me wrong- good things happened! I saw things moving. The kid I talked about yesterday set up a time to meet with his new mentor. I talked to the kid's dad and assured him this was a good thing. Another kid who has anger issues had good reason to be angry but didn't lash out like he would have in the past. So, he's making steps toward improving.
Someone I'd barely talked to in my life looked at me like I was crazy tonight- that's always fun! During a class last week he made a comment that the class should be postponed since several couldn't make it due to another meeting. I had fully expected to miss the class. So, he fact that someone who could have made the class stood up for those who couldn't meant a lot to me. I guess me more than him since when I went to thank him he had no clue what I was talking about! But, oh well!
In January, I started taking a financial peace university class. It has been a life changing experience for me. So, I encouraged my friends to take it, too. And, seeing their successes is an awesome thing!
So, lots of little happy things- people moving along on their journey. And, it's all good!
Blessings,
Jennifer
So, there was no earth shattering God moment today. Don't get me wrong- good things happened! I saw things moving. The kid I talked about yesterday set up a time to meet with his new mentor. I talked to the kid's dad and assured him this was a good thing. Another kid who has anger issues had good reason to be angry but didn't lash out like he would have in the past. So, he's making steps toward improving.
Someone I'd barely talked to in my life looked at me like I was crazy tonight- that's always fun! During a class last week he made a comment that the class should be postponed since several couldn't make it due to another meeting. I had fully expected to miss the class. So, he fact that someone who could have made the class stood up for those who couldn't meant a lot to me. I guess me more than him since when I went to thank him he had no clue what I was talking about! But, oh well!
In January, I started taking a financial peace university class. It has been a life changing experience for me. So, I encouraged my friends to take it, too. And, seeing their successes is an awesome thing!
So, lots of little happy things- people moving along on their journey. And, it's all good!
Blessings,
Jennifer
Wednesday, October 19, 2011
Pie
Wow!
Pie night is a big deal for my group. We usually have anywhere between 7 and 20. Tonight, we had 3. So, tonight is a good example of "It's not about the #'s". Everything lined up for tonight to happen- which I can only believe is God.
One of my boys is struggling. One of my girls has a lot to deal with. And, since something just happened in her life, I fully expected the night to be about that. But, as we talked on the way, I got the impression that all we had to say about it had been said and she is really in a decent place with everything. So, when the two of us walked in, I saw 2 boys at the table. One was my son, a college student and a definite leader in the group. The other was a boy who has been struggling for a long time. Sometimes he's there all the time and other times he's MIA- which means he's hanging out with a rough crowd. The parent of the girl has been talking to me lately about mentoring the boy. He had a rough time growing up and is starting to share his experiences to help others learn from his mistakes. So, as the 2 youth there were talking to the struggler, I left the table to go call the guy, hoping he could come early and talk with the boy. As I was about to call, he walked in the door! I found out later that he was watching the World Series when he decided to get up and come early- which is definitely not like him!
So, he started talking to this boy- sharing about his life and that he knows where this kid is right now. And, then he offered to mentor him, gave him his # and said call if he wanted. The kid acted like he wasn't listening- but I could tell he really was. We've talked alot and tonight he shared things I didn't even know! So, obviously he's already building his trust in this guy! Sunday afternoons, they are now going to get together for coffee, or to watch a game, pretty much just to hang out. And that's exactly what both of them need. The kid to know people care and so he realizes there is a way out of the place he's in. And, the guy will grow by sharing his experiences and "paying it forward" to help himself deal with his past.
This is only the beginning of what God has planned. It may take awhile. But, amazing things are happening!
Blessings,
Jennifer
Pie night is a big deal for my group. We usually have anywhere between 7 and 20. Tonight, we had 3. So, tonight is a good example of "It's not about the #'s". Everything lined up for tonight to happen- which I can only believe is God.
One of my boys is struggling. One of my girls has a lot to deal with. And, since something just happened in her life, I fully expected the night to be about that. But, as we talked on the way, I got the impression that all we had to say about it had been said and she is really in a decent place with everything. So, when the two of us walked in, I saw 2 boys at the table. One was my son, a college student and a definite leader in the group. The other was a boy who has been struggling for a long time. Sometimes he's there all the time and other times he's MIA- which means he's hanging out with a rough crowd. The parent of the girl has been talking to me lately about mentoring the boy. He had a rough time growing up and is starting to share his experiences to help others learn from his mistakes. So, as the 2 youth there were talking to the struggler, I left the table to go call the guy, hoping he could come early and talk with the boy. As I was about to call, he walked in the door! I found out later that he was watching the World Series when he decided to get up and come early- which is definitely not like him!
So, he started talking to this boy- sharing about his life and that he knows where this kid is right now. And, then he offered to mentor him, gave him his # and said call if he wanted. The kid acted like he wasn't listening- but I could tell he really was. We've talked alot and tonight he shared things I didn't even know! So, obviously he's already building his trust in this guy! Sunday afternoons, they are now going to get together for coffee, or to watch a game, pretty much just to hang out. And that's exactly what both of them need. The kid to know people care and so he realizes there is a way out of the place he's in. And, the guy will grow by sharing his experiences and "paying it forward" to help himself deal with his past.
This is only the beginning of what God has planned. It may take awhile. But, amazing things are happening!
Blessings,
Jennifer
Tuesday, October 18, 2011
Welcome!
Yesterday I was frustrated. In a few weeks, I'm taking the youth to an amazing event 2 hours away. Awhile back I had called a church and asked if we could stay there. They were going to let me know. And, yesterday, after not hearing anything, I called to see what the status was. And, you guessed it. They said no- for what I felt was a lame excuse that translated into "we really don't want a bunch of teenagers staying at our church". Ugh! Not much time to find a new place to stay. So, I called my plan B. They were really nice but unable to accommodate us either. But, their excuse was valid, at least. And, they gave me 2 other options. I called both and left messages...and waited.
I got their numbers online. I looked up the first one. And, the first thing I noticed was the church's home page. EVERYONE is valued. is accepted. is loved. is invited. I took that as a good sign! And I soon found it wasn't just words on a website! When we stopped playing phone tag, I had a chance to talk to the youth director at the church. And, she was as excited that we are coming as I am! She's already planning on having some of their youth there to welcome us that night. And, they're making us breakfast! How awesome is that?! Thanks God! I should have known not to stress at all... you have it all under control. ;)
Then he said to them, “Whoever welcomes this little child in my name welcomes me; and whoever welcomes me welcomes the one who sent me. For it is the one who is least among you all who is the greatest.”
Luke 9:47-49
Blessings,
Jennifer
I got their numbers online. I looked up the first one. And, the first thing I noticed was the church's home page. EVERYONE is valued. is accepted. is loved. is invited. I took that as a good sign! And I soon found it wasn't just words on a website! When we stopped playing phone tag, I had a chance to talk to the youth director at the church. And, she was as excited that we are coming as I am! She's already planning on having some of their youth there to welcome us that night. And, they're making us breakfast! How awesome is that?! Thanks God! I should have known not to stress at all... you have it all under control. ;)
Then he said to them, “Whoever welcomes this little child in my name welcomes me; and whoever welcomes me welcomes the one who sent me. For it is the one who is least among you all who is the greatest.”
Luke 9:47-49
Blessings,
Jennifer
Monday, October 17, 2011
All You Need is Love
Warning: If I seem a little distracted, it's because there are four teenagers in the same room as me as I try to write this. Right now they're swapping crazy videos from youtube and seeing if they can do really hard versions of push ups they find online. Yes, that's my life some days! I guess since this is my devotion time I should go somewhere a little quieter... hold on.
So, where did I see God today? I know some days will be harder than others. And already I'm enjoying this because at the end of the day I have a chance to reflect on my day and realize what I may not have if I weren't doing this.
So, here's where I think God is working. This morning, I talked to my pastor about an idea I have. It's something I got at my youthworker training. So, I was asking him what he thought of starting a group called "Hot Topix" that would be for high school teens to come to a local coffee shop and talk about a different topic every week- controversial things like sex, drugs, music, ghosts... the things the youth struggle with. This would be a chance to share with teens who wouldn't necessarily feel comfortable talking at a church but struggle with these things. It would be a chance to share how to deal with them in a Christian way. I was excited but hesitant since it could be a controversial thing to do. But, here's where God comes in. Not only did my pastor agree to this, he gave me more ideas to go with it! It's going to take awhile to put together, but I feel you'll hear more about all of this as our journey continues. An opportunity to share with unchurched kids has awesome potential!
And tonight, as I mentioned, I've got teenagers acting crazy in my living room. Why am I mentioning this again. Because, when one of them walked in tonight she was crying. And, I'm in the other room and can hear her laughing uncontrollably! I see God in their friendship and in the way they support each other. That's what being a christian is all about- loving one another!
And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love.
1 Corinthians 13:12-13
“A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another.
John 13:33-35
Blessings,
Jennifer
So, where did I see God today? I know some days will be harder than others. And already I'm enjoying this because at the end of the day I have a chance to reflect on my day and realize what I may not have if I weren't doing this.
So, here's where I think God is working. This morning, I talked to my pastor about an idea I have. It's something I got at my youthworker training. So, I was asking him what he thought of starting a group called "Hot Topix" that would be for high school teens to come to a local coffee shop and talk about a different topic every week- controversial things like sex, drugs, music, ghosts... the things the youth struggle with. This would be a chance to share with teens who wouldn't necessarily feel comfortable talking at a church but struggle with these things. It would be a chance to share how to deal with them in a Christian way. I was excited but hesitant since it could be a controversial thing to do. But, here's where God comes in. Not only did my pastor agree to this, he gave me more ideas to go with it! It's going to take awhile to put together, but I feel you'll hear more about all of this as our journey continues. An opportunity to share with unchurched kids has awesome potential!
And tonight, as I mentioned, I've got teenagers acting crazy in my living room. Why am I mentioning this again. Because, when one of them walked in tonight she was crying. And, I'm in the other room and can hear her laughing uncontrollably! I see God in their friendship and in the way they support each other. That's what being a christian is all about- loving one another!
And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love.
1 Corinthians 13:12-13
“A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another.
John 13:33-35
Blessings,
Jennifer
Sunday, October 16, 2011
Communion
It's the third Sunday of the month. For me that means two things. One, it's pizza night at youth group. And two (and much more important), it's communion Sunday for the service I regularly attend. So, it's no surprise that my first sighting came during that service. This morning was hectic because I had to play bells during a different service- which means rehearsal is during my worship time. So, I was back and forth- catching what I could. I had heard the end of the sermon at the previous service and was really looking forward to the beginning. When a sermon ends with "Don't be a jerk!", it made me wonder what that was all about! Ironically, part of the sermon that I caught was about looking for the positive and about paying it forward. He talked about things we might want to change about ourselves and then looking for something we were thankful for this week. "Hi God! Did you read about my blog plan? Thanks for the encouragement. I'll try to keep up with it. But, knowing you are here cheering me on now helps!" So, this is my attempt to change what I don't like. And, this is my way of looking for the positive and being thankful. And, I love the whole concept of paying it forward. Maybe those reading this will pay it forward too? We can all share our blessings!
So, I'm not done! That was just a side note, actually. What?! A message straight from God a side note? Well, yeah... kinda. Here's what overwhelmed me today. I grew up Presbyterian so this is still something I am sometimes taken aback by- in a good way. The Pastor leads communion and people from the congregation- anyone from the congregation- can help serve. And, today I took communion from my son! How amazing is that?! To watch him growing into a faithful servant of God is more than a mother can hope for. I mean, he has his moments- he's a teenager after all. But, I see God in him because of his attitude of service. Matthew 25:40
“The King will reply, ‘Truly I tell you, whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers and sisters of mine, you did for me.’
I'm so proud of the person he is becoming and the leader he's becoming! Everyone knows Rafael and he is becoming a role model for those younger than him. And, today I was struck with that realization even more as he held the cup and I dipped my bread and heard him say "His blood shed for you".
Blessings,
Jennifer
So, I'm not done! That was just a side note, actually. What?! A message straight from God a side note? Well, yeah... kinda. Here's what overwhelmed me today. I grew up Presbyterian so this is still something I am sometimes taken aback by- in a good way. The Pastor leads communion and people from the congregation- anyone from the congregation- can help serve. And, today I took communion from my son! How amazing is that?! To watch him growing into a faithful servant of God is more than a mother can hope for. I mean, he has his moments- he's a teenager after all. But, I see God in him because of his attitude of service. Matthew 25:40
“The King will reply, ‘Truly I tell you, whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers and sisters of mine, you did for me.’
I'm so proud of the person he is becoming and the leader he's becoming! Everyone knows Rafael and he is becoming a role model for those younger than him. And, today I was struck with that realization even more as he held the cup and I dipped my bread and heard him say "His blood shed for you".
Blessings,
Jennifer
Sweetest Day
Although it wasn't today, it was 11 years ago this weekend. I know it's cheesy- but I have a good reason to remember the day. And, I know, without a doubt, that God was there. 11 years ago, I had my first date with my husband. And, the reason I remember is- purely by coincidence- it was Sweetest Day. I'm thinking it's second in awkwardness only to Valentine's Day!
After writing an essay entitled "Why Women Should Not Get Married" for my college English class, I was married within a year! He and I met about 3 years earlier- both of us at a point that a real relationship wasn't on our minds. And, so, that's all it was. We met several times at church and, because of illness, I had to leave early and he thought I just didn't want to talk to him. Looking back, we both know that it just wasn't out time yet. God had a different plan. And so, when he walked in that Sunday, I knew for some reason that now was our time. Well, after I realized that the woman and little boy he walked in with were his sister and nephew not his wife and son. ;)
So, I thank God for His gift to me. And I look at this as a way of reminding myself that God has perfect timing even when we don't understand it. Within those 3 years, there were times I thought I was ready- where I wished I had a relationship. But, God knew when I was really ready. And, for that, I am always grateful!
This reminds me of my favorite scripture. Jeremiah 29:11
For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the LORD, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.
Blessings,
Jennifer
After writing an essay entitled "Why Women Should Not Get Married" for my college English class, I was married within a year! He and I met about 3 years earlier- both of us at a point that a real relationship wasn't on our minds. And, so, that's all it was. We met several times at church and, because of illness, I had to leave early and he thought I just didn't want to talk to him. Looking back, we both know that it just wasn't out time yet. God had a different plan. And so, when he walked in that Sunday, I knew for some reason that now was our time. Well, after I realized that the woman and little boy he walked in with were his sister and nephew not his wife and son. ;)
So, I thank God for His gift to me. And I look at this as a way of reminding myself that God has perfect timing even when we don't understand it. Within those 3 years, there were times I thought I was ready- where I wished I had a relationship. But, God knew when I was really ready. And, for that, I am always grateful!
This reminds me of my favorite scripture. Jeremiah 29:11
For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the LORD, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.
Blessings,
Jennifer
Saturday, October 15, 2011
Amazing Day of Grumpiness
Because this is key to my starting this blog, I want to share a story from earlier this week.
I was having a crummy day. It was nothing bad- nothing out of the ordinary happened. But, it was rainy and dreary, I'd just gotten 2 more bills to add to my list of bills to pay, and I just felt like being grumpy! There's no reason anyone should ever feel that way, but I think it happens to the best of us! So, when I got a phonecall midway through my "day of grumpiness" I was relieved to take some time out to hang out and chat. Knowing that God had put this "timeout" in my day, I was grateful to Him. This time was just what I needed to change my attitude to not choosing to be grumpy.
But, God wasn't done. Although I was in a much better mood, the thought of leading a class for youth about financial issues was not high on my list of favorite things to do on a day I was feeling so frustrated about my finances! But, there was no choice but to go. So, off I went. It was a smaller group than usual. And, for once I thought we were going to get through the whole lesson. But, then something happened. We read the first scripture for the lesson.
Matthew 6: 19- 21 “Do not store up for yourselves treasures on earth, where moths and vermin destroy, and where thieves break in and steal. 20 But store up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where moths and vermin do not destroy, and where thieves do not break in and steal. 21 For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.
And, from there a tangent that only God could have led became an inspirational moment. These middle schoolers started sharing their thoughts on heaven- which led to hell- which led to sin- which led to forgiveness- which led to it all being possible because Jesus died to save us. What struck me was not that we had this discussion but that they were so strong in their belief and understanding. They weren't asking; they were telling me what they believed! I sat their in awe- trying to take it all in. They were so excited that they were sometimes all talking at once. I was sad when the evening ended- the evening I didn't want to be a part of.
I came home thanking God for the blessing He had just given me. And I thought "I wonder if these youth know the blessing they are to me". And, I think that these moments should be realized everyday. Because they do exist. And these, to me, are just as important- if not more important- as the big miracles that I may hear about sometime because these are the miracles I can see and feel.
Blessings,
Jennifer
I was having a crummy day. It was nothing bad- nothing out of the ordinary happened. But, it was rainy and dreary, I'd just gotten 2 more bills to add to my list of bills to pay, and I just felt like being grumpy! There's no reason anyone should ever feel that way, but I think it happens to the best of us! So, when I got a phonecall midway through my "day of grumpiness" I was relieved to take some time out to hang out and chat. Knowing that God had put this "timeout" in my day, I was grateful to Him. This time was just what I needed to change my attitude to not choosing to be grumpy.
But, God wasn't done. Although I was in a much better mood, the thought of leading a class for youth about financial issues was not high on my list of favorite things to do on a day I was feeling so frustrated about my finances! But, there was no choice but to go. So, off I went. It was a smaller group than usual. And, for once I thought we were going to get through the whole lesson. But, then something happened. We read the first scripture for the lesson.
Matthew 6: 19- 21 “Do not store up for yourselves treasures on earth, where moths and vermin destroy, and where thieves break in and steal. 20 But store up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where moths and vermin do not destroy, and where thieves do not break in and steal. 21 For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.
And, from there a tangent that only God could have led became an inspirational moment. These middle schoolers started sharing their thoughts on heaven- which led to hell- which led to sin- which led to forgiveness- which led to it all being possible because Jesus died to save us. What struck me was not that we had this discussion but that they were so strong in their belief and understanding. They weren't asking; they were telling me what they believed! I sat their in awe- trying to take it all in. They were so excited that they were sometimes all talking at once. I was sad when the evening ended- the evening I didn't want to be a part of.
I came home thanking God for the blessing He had just given me. And I thought "I wonder if these youth know the blessing they are to me". And, I think that these moments should be realized everyday. Because they do exist. And these, to me, are just as important- if not more important- as the big miracles that I may hear about sometime because these are the miracles I can see and feel.
Blessings,
Jennifer
Why Am I Here?
Recently, I asked a group of youthworkers if they knew of a devotional specifically geared for youthworkers. I had been looking for awhile and had come up with alot of dead ends. I can find game sites, curriculum sites, project sites, you name it. But, nowhere have I found a devotional site. So, after someone suggested I start one (and me ignoring that for 2 weeks) it came up again at another youthworker gathering. So, on the drive home, I decided it was time for me to start blogging again. And here is what I envision.
As a youth director for a local church, I am pretty busy! Add to it a part-time job and being a wife and mother and time barely exists! But, one thing I have realized is that it's essential to take time out to realize the simple miracles that happen every day. So, as my daily devotional time, I'm going to write- not read someone else's- daily miracles. My hope is, that by doing this, I will enrich my journey and awareness of God in the little things in my life and also encourage others to do the same. I encourage you to share your comments and stories of things you encounter along the way.
Blessings,
Jennifer
As a youth director for a local church, I am pretty busy! Add to it a part-time job and being a wife and mother and time barely exists! But, one thing I have realized is that it's essential to take time out to realize the simple miracles that happen every day. So, as my daily devotional time, I'm going to write- not read someone else's- daily miracles. My hope is, that by doing this, I will enrich my journey and awareness of God in the little things in my life and also encourage others to do the same. I encourage you to share your comments and stories of things you encounter along the way.
Blessings,
Jennifer
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